The Gift of Giving #BGCA

This has been one of the first years where our family was really been able to give back. It feels so good to be able to give back, even if it’s just a little here and there. More importantly though, I want my girls to really know that feeling too.

We make a conscious effort to talk to them about how and when we give back, and as they get older I hope they will want to give back to others just as much.


How do you teach your children about giving?

Here are just a few ideas that you can help you encourage your family to give back to others.

1. Talk about giving. Tell your kids which causes you’re supporting this year and why. Better yet, make the choice together. Or give each child a portion of what you plan to donate this year and allow him or her to choose the charity.

2. Read books about giving. Try The Mitten Tree by Candace Christiansen, I Can Make a Difference by Julie and Amanda Sexson or a selection from Learning to Give’s Annotated Bibliography of Children’s Literature.

3. Volunteer together. Whether serving a meal at a soup kitchen or lending a hand at an animal shelter, volunteering helps kids learn compassion – and it’s a great way for families to spend time together. Check with your child’s school, your religious institution, a local Boys & Girls Club or The Volunteer Family for project ideas.

4. Encourage routine volunteering. Contributing regularly to an organization they choose can be meaningful, showing kids that they have the power to make a difference. This is especially true for teens. Support them by providing transportation or extra allowance for expenses, if needed.

5. Do something fun, like cooking or an art project. Even very young children can make cards for senior center residents or help you bake a tasty treat for a neighbor. These are perfect ways to have fun while thinking about others.

– Visit the Boys & Girls Clubs of America for even more ways, to teach about giving back.

The Boys & Girls Club of America marks its second annual Give the Gift of a Great Future Holiday Campaign – to encourage families to give during the holiday season.

They have a couple of fun ways for you and your family to participate. You can play the free Giving Game until December 31st. Playing equals giving, because every time a player wins, a donation will be made to a Boys & Girls Club.

You can also vote in the Kids Give Back photo contest, in which the winning Club will receive a $2,500 grant from BGCA.

Big or small, encourage your family to give!


I participated in a campaign on behalf of Mom Central Consulting for Boys and Girls Clubs of America. I received a promotional item as a thank-you for participating.

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In 2010, Hanan went from talking about her parenting ups & downs on private forums to discussing them with literally everyone on the internet with her blog Eat.Craft.Parent - since then, she’s had the opportunity to talk about parenting, cooking, photography, marriage, crafts, faith, and so much more. She also shares her opinions on everyday products from food to baby gear, and everything in between. With four little girls all under seven, there is never a dull moment in their home. When she’s not blogging she’s chatting about parenting and life in general on Facebook and Twitter, or wasting way too much time on Pinterest.

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  1. wow, a $2,500 grant? That is awesome!! Thank you for sharing Hanan!
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  2. deb says:

    Thanks for sharing these great ideas. I love the ‘volunteer together’…so important that they learn by example.
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  3. I love these ideas, Hanan! It’s so important to discuss giving with your children and then show them what that looks like. I think it’s fun to be able to play a game and give, too!
    Becca – Our Crazy Boys recent post: Holiday Baking With Safeway And A Giveaway! #SafewayHoliday

  4. Christa says:

    I love the idea of making cards for the elderly we have a nursing home very near us so that would be perfect!
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  5. great ideas! making cards for those who wouldn’t normally receive them is a really sweet gesture.
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  6. Kerri says:

    I always love working together as a family to show my daughters that we should give to others.

  7. Lynsey @MoscatoMom says:

    I love this and think it is SO important. A great way to teach kids gratitude as well! Big – IMPORTANT – life lessons!
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  8. Melissa says:

    Such great examples to share with out kids!
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  9. I love having our kids get into the spirit of giving! It teaches them so much.

  10. I love the idea about reading the books. We’ve been focused on giving a lot lately. Now my 3 yr old says “I wish I was poor” all the time because he’s sad that everyone else is getting gifts and not him. He doesn’t quite understand that Christmas is a week away and he won’t be left wanting for anything.
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  11. Jai says:

    BGCA really is a wonderful organization. They fit very well as part of your list of great ideas
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  12. Karen says:

    When my son was growing up, I was a divorced mother of three, with an absent dad. My son got a lot of positive male bonding from his time spent at the Boys Club. I try to give back to them whenever I can.

    Also, I have been a volunteer at something or other for most of my adult life. My children learned from watching me how rewarding volunteering can be. As a girl scout leader for many years, I included volunteer projects often for my troop. My girls, and my son as well, participated in community service project from a very young age. This has stuck with them into their adulthood, and I am happy to say that they are now teaching their own children to volunteer in their own communities.
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